Confidence Company NZ


I had been very stuck for a long time. I used to self-sabotage, where I would set myself up to fail. I would run a tape in my head of really negative self-talk - I am not good enough, I can't do this, I am not as good as they are, It's too hard. After a while, I didn't have a choice but to believe the negative thoughts I was telling myself.

This inspired me to turn it into a positive and help others move to a better place and find their own voice and stand in the light. I worked in radio, newspapers and magazines, then trained as a high school English and Media teacher. I set up the speech and drama department at King's School, in Auckland. There I helped numerous boys unlock their confidence, speak up, find their voice and tell their story with confidence. I moved to work with adults and trained as a coach. I worked with Mary Britton from Coaching Pacific. She challenged me to use two powerful, visual metaphors. I used the image of a grey cardigan to represent my negative thinking, what was holding me back and the image of a powerful red dress to move me forward and that came to be known as my red dress thinking. It helped me successfully complete the Speaker's Training Camp in Portland, Oregon,and become a licenced trainer. I became a total convert to the power of coaching and started working as a confidence coach.

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